waves upon the sand

Life is much like waves upon the sand. Sometimes the waves are gentle. These waves deposit sand on the shore. Sometimes waves hit the shore explosively, eroding the beaches. Sometimes waves are what is termed as a rip tide. The latter is sneaky. It grabs you, knocks you off your feet, and if you aren't careful, can drag you out to sea. Today has been a day with all three types of waves.

Amy L came by and dropped off flowers for the wedding. She is a gentle soul. It is always nice to see her. She brought one of her daughters. It was the first time I had opportunity to meet any of my new step-grandchildren. I'm sure they are all much like their mom.

Later, I had a message from my oldest daughter. Stress is really starting to get to her and it is definitely showing. She exploded in expressions of frustration. Still another message from her indicated she felt out of control, hit by a rip tide.

I made some suggestions, most of which were carried out and now all is calming down again. Communication is so very important. Not only does it reflect desires, but it also dispels frustrations that lead to needless misunderstandings and anger. Never stop talking, especially to those you love. Communication can be that life saver thrown in the tide to save a drowning loved one.